Thursday, February 18, 2010

Bitter

It has been a year since I severed ties with my former employer and moved to a new company which holds office in the same building. My former big boss seems to have ill feelings on our parting.

BB does not acknowledge my presence when we bump into each other– in the lobby, in the elevator, or at their office when I have official business to attend to. The last chance encounter was on Friday where we practically sat inches from each other in a crowded restaurant. I acknowledged BB’s presence, BB did not.

It was unbecoming for someone of BB’s stature. It was unprofessional. Surely, I won’t be as friendly the next time around. I did no wrong. I had no binding contract. Nagpaalam naman ako ng maayos.

Seriously, BB has to stop being bitter. Get over it. Move on.

31 comments:

The Gasoline Dude said...

Is BB a guy or a girl? Baka naman me gusto sa 'yo at na-brokenhearted pag-alis mo. LOL

princess_dyanie said...

ay bitter 101 nga haha. basta alam mong wala ka naman naapakang tao, okay lang yan!

gillboard said...

ganun naman minsan talaga... ako yung dati kong boss, nung nalaman niya i trained sa ibang bansa, biglang stop communication... magkabuilding din kami last year... tas kahit 2 lang kami sa elevator.. deadma...

ShatterShards said...

It is said that most workers quit their employers, and not their jobs. Maybe that's how BB thinks of your resignation, and took offense on it.

Andy said...

Sobrang naapektuhan lang siguro siya sa pagresign mo. Asset ka siguro sa former office niyo and your boss siguro thinks your resignation is a great loss to the company. Otherwise, hindi naman siguro magrereact yun nang ganun.

DRAKE said...

oo naman baka naman you broke his/her heart din!hahahah! Pwede!

Regaluhan mo ng charantia,hahah

prinsesamusang said...

nakakatuwa naman si BB parang high school LOL

Raft3r said...

ang billis ng panahon, ano
one year na pala

hayaan mo na yon
may halong inggit lang sya
hehe

atticus said...

pasalamat ka na lang di mo na siya boss. kasi para siyang nasa kinder pa pala. haha!

but it would probably nice to ask him/her to have coffee with you one of these days and ask. sometimes it's better to deal with things like this head-on. that's if you want to. otherwise, let it go. :)

the donG said...

may mga ganyan lang yata talaga. yihaa! this weekend na. wag mo ng isipin yan.

FerBert said...

baka inlove sayo. loljk

anyway napansin ko sa sidebar mo yung kafka on the shore paboritong libro ko yan ni Murakami saka norweigan wood at wind-up bird chronicle saka yun lang. lol

The Scud said...

gasoline dude, BB is a lola. mukhang brokenhearted nga yun, in a non-romantic kind of way.

The Scud said...

princess dyanie, naapakan ko lang pride nya. na-blindside kasi ni scud. nyahaha.

The Scud said...

gillboard, ayos naman magselos ni former boss. parang bata.

The Scud said...

shattershards, ganun na nga siguro. i'm not losing sleep over it though.

The Scud said...

andy, natumpak mo. galing! :D

The Scud said...

drake, di ako magsasayang ng pera sa kanya. nyahaha.

The Scud said...

prinsesa musang, oo nga. ang tanda tanda na nga nun.

The Scud said...

raft3r, bilis no? isang taon na akong "tambay". :(

The Scud said...

atticus, i let it go. matagal na. sya lang ang ayaw. hehe.

The Scud said...

dong, di ko na sya iniisip. ***** state of mind na ako. yey!

The Scud said...

ferbert, naku. hindi. parang lola ko na yun. hehe.

norwegian wood is one of my all-time faves.

btw, thanks for dropping by. balik ka ulit.

random student said...

answerte mo naman for being the object of such feelings which has weight pa rin ha. negative nga lang. it's good that you know how to shrug it off or look at it from a good place.

Photo Cache said...

indispensable ka kc kaya ayan masama pa din loob.

yap, he should get over it.

The Scud said...

random student, tapos na kasi kami nun. kung sa relasyon pa, matagal na kaming break. hehe.

The Scud said...

photo cache, i like the word. indispensable. :D

ahmer said...

naku si BB kelangan na uminom ng tubig... hehe Inggit lng yan sa Galing mo : D

duke said...

si BB gandanghari ba yan? lol. yup, THE BOOK THIEF. go read! now!

The Scud said...

ahmer, oo nga. baka dehydrated. nyahaha.

The Scud said...

duke, ayos. mahanap na nga yan. thanks!

Chingoy said...

in lababo ang Lola! hehehe